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Love your size: How to wear a dress

Love your size: How to wear a dress

This weekend, a friend visiting from abroad asked me about wearing dresses. Her body changed a lot since having her daughter 10 years ago and she was still unsure about her new dimensions, so she often wore jeans and trousers paired with a polo shirt. When it came to dresses, she thought her only option was flowing, empire-waist dresses to hide her (slightly thicker) midsection – not exactly the most flattering look.

This got me thinking: many women’s bodies change with age and childbirth, and while the Hollywood ideal is to diet (or alter) one’s way back to the pre-baby body, many of us just need to get used to our new digs. Dressing for new proportions can be challenging, and the first instinct is to hide everything with fabric. Resist the urge! The trite advice to “accent the positive, eliminate the negative” was never truer than with dressing your new body. Here are a few examples.

Holiday Beauty

Sparkle like a Cullen

Christmas parties! Reunions! Face-stuffing! The holidays are all so busy, festive and fun – what better season than this to showcase your gorgeous face? Take advantage of the good cheer (and hopefully good lighting) with amped-up holiday beauty. Try these:

Line them up

From Liz Taylor’s dramatic winged eyelids to Twiggy’s emphasized waif eyes, liquid eyeliner guarantees you’ll make an impact, wherever you go. You can do a little retro line or go all-out Cleopatra. I know most people are scared of liquid liner, however, so keep a few tips in mind: rest the heel of your hand on your cheek to steady it as you apply the liner; start with a thin line and light pressure as close as possible to your lashes and then add/thicken from there; and choose a liquid liner with a slim, precise applicator. I prefer the kind that comes in a pot with a brush than the pen applicators, which tend to smudge on me. My favorite is Avon ExtraLasting Eyeliner.

Inspiration: Stylish movies

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There are movies that I watch, over and over again, not because they’re particularly good, well-acted, artistic or insightful into the human condition. No, I watch them because the costumes are fabulous! I may not be able to recreate them, but just having that spark of an idea – something like, “I could totally use some white Princess Leia drapery today” – can revitalize and refresh the dreary task of deciding what to wear.  From crazy-fantastic ideas to ensembles that I can maybe-sorta copy, here are a few of my favorite stylish movies.

Proceed with caution

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I’m all for having fun with fashion and experimenting with clothes, but I also concede that there are certain things that might connote…well, the opposite of stylish. I’m not saying these things can never be worn – it’s just that they’re hard to pull off. Here are a few frequent offenders and ideas to wear them well.

Wear the trend: Monochrome

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One of the easiest ways to go fashion-forward without breaking the bank is monochrome: dressing head to foot in shades of one color. It’s one of the biggest trends this year and it’s fairly easy to do. You and I already have various items of clothing that fall on the same color spectrum, all we have to do is wear them all together!

The beauty of the trend is that you can go as wild as you like in bright colors or go staid and neutral, like me.

Treats for tricks

Iggy - Sheer top

I’m really looking forward to the long weekend (which *full disclosure* I’ll probably spend cleaning the underside of the kitchen stove) because I dearly need a break! But like many busy moms, I don’t have the time or the budget to go on a weekend “staycation” or even spend the day in the spa (which I don’t enjoy anyway). What I do are mini-treats: five-minute pick-me-ups you can squeeze into your day and emerge feeling just a tiny bit better and ready for the challenges ahead.

Read the Label

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You’re a civilized person: you bathe at least once a day, brush your teeth, sanitize your hands after grimy MRT rides and before eating, and wear cologne and deodorant out of consideration to the people you encounter each day. You may even wear make-up to enhance your features.

But do you every wonder what’s in the products you use each day? Are they really safe?

Wear the trend: Accessory overload

Bangles by Qelly Rue Designs

The necks and wrists of trendsetters from Rachel Zoe to style bloggers like Leandra Medine of Man Repeller.com have lately been weighed down with piles of jewelry. Depending on the accessories used and the outfits paired with, your “arm party” (to borrow a term from Man Repeller) can signify a whole range of looks, from

Satchel crazy

The Frances Satchel from Frannie & Vinnie

The word in bags today is satchels. Originally used to carry books for school, these bags are great for their boxy, roomy bodies and long straps – you can wear them across your body and without wrangling them like a tote when you’re out and about. Plus, the bag’s shape and style evokes the late ‘80s to early ‘90s, which is a big trend right now. You can run errands and go about your day but still look effortlessly fasyon. So what satchel should you get?

Wear your body loud and proud

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I stumbled upon PLUMP this summer and I’ve been a fan of (and featured in, tee-hee!) this body acceptance blog, and the lovely twins behind it, ever since. Sisters Danah and Stacy Gutierrez started PLUMP in 2009 to counter the rigid standards of beauty perpetuated by the media and celebrate true Filipina beauty. And while